Many men struggle with their relationships with women, especially when it comes to really understanding women. This lack of understanding can lead to some really serious issues in connecting with women on a meaningful level.
So consider these tips for better relationships with women from CEO “Scott Binsack” to help you gain a better understanding of the women in your life – she’ll definitely thank you!
Don’t Yell. Don’t Be Silent. Speak.
When their emotions are stirred, men tend to have two modes: yelling and silence.
But this is hugely problematic because when you yell, the other person is apt to either shut down or adopt a defensive position. When you’re silent, nothing gets resolved and she’ll have no idea what you’re really thinking.
Most issues are best addressed and resolved through a simple discussion – something that many men tend to avoid like the plague. But it’s really quite necessary if you’re going to connect with a woman on any real emotional level.
If you feel too upset to talk right now, that’s fine – better to bite your tongue than to say something you’ll regret. But it’s essential that you talk about the issue at some point in the not-so-distant future. So make it a point to talk about issues that are the cause of upset or disagreement.
Say What’s on Your Mind.
Women aren’t mind readers. And believe it or not, virtually every woman loves to be told that she looks pretty; that you had a great time on your date together last night; or that — gasp — you love and appreciate her.
So don’t assume she knows whatever it is you’re thinking or feeling. Tell her once in a while (or even more frequently for better results!)
Improve Your Relationships with Women By Letting her Vent.
Women like to talk about how they’re feeling. It’s one of the ways in which females process their experiences and the world around them.
Sometimes, women just like to vent. You don’t need to comment. You don’t need to fix it. You don’t need to offer a solution. In fact, it’s often best not to say anything at all unless she asks for your feedback or opinion. You just need to listen. Just be there.
Don’t Be a Dick.
Plain and simple fact: women don’t respond well to men who are dicks. Don’t be arrogant. Don’t act conceited or “better than thou.” Don’t belittle the women in your life and definitely don’t talk down to her. Ever.
Gone are the days of women who believe that they’re subservient or in any way lesser than men. She is your equal. Treat her like one.
And if you don’t believe she’s your equal, then perhaps it’s probably best to stay single until you have an attitude that’s going to be conducive to a relationship with today’s modern woman. Or find a time machine that can transport you back to 1950, because that’s the only place you’re apt to find a subservient little housewife.
With these tips from CEO Scott Binsack, you’ll be well on your way to better and more fruitful relationships with women.